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	<title>Comments on: Oops, I didn&#8217;t listen</title>
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		<title>By: Stephen Wright</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen Wright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 18:52:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ed,

I believe we have glossed over the speaking part that you describe under "Speaking Skills" in our Salon training.  After speaking it makes complete sense to pause and ask for a reaction from the listeners.  But my personal experience, when I am RED, I often don't leave the space for, or request a response.  A response usually arrives but often after I have belabored, bored, and tried the patience of my listeners.

Thank for reminding me of this important element of a listening conversation.  We should mention it more often in the Salons, as I believe it would facility the flow of conversation, especially for the new participants.

Stephen</description>
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<p>I believe we have glossed over the speaking part that you describe under &#8220;Speaking Skills&#8221; in our Salon training.  After speaking it makes complete sense to pause and ask for a reaction from the listeners.  But my personal experience, when I am RED, I often don&#8217;t leave the space for, or request a response.  A response usually arrives but often after I have belabored, bored, and tried the patience of my listeners.</p>
<p>Thank for reminding me of this important element of a listening conversation.  We should mention it more often in the Salons, as I believe it would facility the flow of conversation, especially for the new participants.</p>
<p>Stephen</p>
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